In this gut-wrenching talk, Sergeant Andrew Chambers shares the haunting story of his time in Iraq and the tough transition home that landed him in jail. It’s a powerful testimony to the struggle our soldiers face when they come home, and the tragic ways that they can be denied the help they need.
For anyone looking to support a veteran, we encourage you to heed Chambers’ advice: "Find a veteran and listen to his story. A lot of us just need somebody to talk to."
Happy Veteran’s Day.
And if you do decide to listen, please don’t:
- ask them if they have hurt or killed anyone.
- try to compare their story to something you experienced or tie everything back to someone else’s experience, (i.e. “My second cousin is a Marine, he said …” ) Everyone’s experience is different.
- Know when someone needs help and it’s something out of your control. If your veteran friend needs psychiatric assistance or counseling and admits it to you, encourage them to seek help from a professional. And then keep encouraging and supporting them to go each time. Support them for as long as it takes.
- Look into what resources your campus offers, and be aware of where they are. Many of us who have remained in the academic environment for a long time are used to know about your course catalogue, advising offices, how to get an override, etc. Many returning veterans who are used to being more independent may find some of this daunting and massively overwhelming. Offer to walk with them to the office if they seem frustrated.
And most importantly:
- Truly listen. If a veteran trusts you with their story, it is very, very significant to them. Opening up can be very difficult for some veterans and you should never try to pressure or push someone into talking about something they are not comfortable talking about yet. Be patient. Keep your ears open. Tell them that at the very least, they can know you are there if they need.
this is why I want to go into military psychology. this is why I’m so interested in doing research on PTSD. so we can help people like this man, who didn’t get the help he needed when he asked for it.
102 chicken nuggets
why would you order 17 of 6 instead of 5 of 20… that shit’s expensive as hellGetting 2 four pieces is cheaper then 1 6 piece know your nuggets
but getting 1 20 piece is cheaper than 3 6 pieces KNOW YOUR NUGGETS
this is how word problems for math books are started, isn’t it.